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How many times have you been told your pain isn’t real?

That you are making it up.

“It’s just in your head.”
“You’re overreacting.”
“The tests look fine.”

Each of these phrases might seem innocuous to the person saying them, but to you, they cut deep.

These words aren’t just dismissive; they are weapons that chip away at your confidence, your sense of reality, and your trust in yourself.

When medical professionals, loved ones, or even society diminish your experience, it leaves scars beyond the physical.

You start to second-guess yourself: Am I imagining this? Am I broken? Am I asking for too much?

This is medical gaslighting. And it’s a form of emotional violence.

It’s being told your suffering is “just stress.”


It’s being made to feel as though your body has betrayed you, and now, no one will believe you.


It’s the humiliation of being labeled “dramatic” or “difficult” when all you want is to feel better.

But here’s the truth: Your pain is real. Your experience is valid.

No one knows your body better than you do. Not a test, not a chart, not someone else’s opinion.

The disconnect between what you’re living and how others perceive it isn’t your fault—it’s a reflection of a medical system that sometimes fails to see beyond statistics and standard protocols.

The frustration, confusion, and loneliness you feel are not because you’re weak or unworthy. They result from not being truly seen, not being listened to, and not being given the care you deserve.

But it doesn’t have to stay this way.

You have the right to advocate for yourself. You have the right to find professionals and communities who respect your voice and validate your experience.

Healing starts when you reclaim that voice and honor your truth—loudly, unapologetically, and without fear of judgment.

You didn’t choose this journey, but you can choose how you walk it. One step at a time, you can reconnect with your body and rebuild the trust others have tried to take from you.

You deserve to be heard. You deserve to be believed. You deserve to heal.

With compassion,
Michele

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